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    I have to vent, cause ive been dealing with this bullshit for over a month now and things are getting worse. As some of you know, I run my own business, and in doing so I had talked to my friend Jeff about sharing a shop space since I wanted to cut my costs and his business shouldn't interfere with mine as he does mechanic work on all sorts of vehicles and im not into that kind of work.

    The agreement when we were moving in was to split the electric, phone, and rent. He was bringing all his tools and compressor so I wouldn't really need to bring any of those to waste shop space, and it was agreed that I could use them. Things went well for a few months....

    I come back from the father's day weekend to find all my food out of the fridge and into a black trash bag sitting on the desk with a note that says OPEN IT. I guess some of the food I had in there was starting to go bad, so they decided to throw everything that was mine into a bag and have me open it up. Nevermind the sandwich that was 3 days old, my dressing packets for the salads I buy, and some bags of lettuce that were probably ready to go to the trash but were sealed so they didn't stink. Instead of throwing away the 2 styrofoam conatiners of leftovers that were causing the problem, and then telling me about it, they had to do this. I wasn't very happy.

    A few days later, I am going through the expenses that we were going to split, like air lines, lights, etc, and noticed he had an outside light for 50 bucks that had been sitting for over 2 months. I left a note with the money I owed him, accounting for what he owed me in electric and phone...no big deal. I also included that I didn't think I should have to pay for half of the light if it wasn't going to get used. Over the next 3 days the light went up.

    Then after that, I come to the shop to find the electric box to the lift and compressor has a new door welded on there with a lock on it. And a note, saying that I didn't pay for half the lift or the compressor so I couldn't use them. Things just got worse from there. I called him and left a nasty message cause this was fucked up. He arrives at the shop after he got off working his other job, and starts with the yelling and shit. Some crap about how my money that I invested into moving to this shop wasn't worth anything because my parents gave me the money when I was 1 year old in the form of stock. Nevermind that his family bought his lift... Also something about how he didn't agree with buying such a large heater during the winter cause I just bought it cause I was cold (and he said this acting as if I wasn't a man cause I didn't want to freeze). Nevermind the fact that it was something we had decided on getting, and that the one I originally bought wasn't working right, so he took it back and got the one we have now. Hmmm....telling at me for something that was in late january, early february.

    A few days ago, lorenzo was here helping me do my brakes, and I was using jeffs jack. unfortunately, jeff got here before we were done and saw me using his jack. Guess what he did....

    He put a chain around the jack and locked it up with the electrical box! I have a picture too! http://60degreev6.com/Sappy/shop/DCP_3201.JPG

    The lease is up after this month, so thank god i understand what a jackass he is now. He has now taken to calling my friend Ian from a payphone with one of his buddies and talking shit to him...and he has not 1 damn thing to do with any of this. I don't enjoy dealing with grown up children...this is just very immature.

    Business isn't on pause for me, though I will share that the 94-95 DOHC chips aren't any further yet, and the DOHC intakes are delayed because I have to find someone to weld aluminum for me. I hope to overcome this obstacle I used to call a friend and get to work 100% without stress and worries within the next 3 weeks. [/url]
    Ben
    60DegreeV6.com
    WOT-Tech.com

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    sorry to hear about your trouble, i don't claim friends for the same reason, i merely have aquaintences or co-workers now. that guy sounds like a real control freak, what is he like 13?
    If you aren't friends with a liar, you aren't friends with anyone.

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    • #3
      Sorry to hear Ben. What an ass.

      Hmm. He is saying that 'being a man' means being stupid and ignoring coomon sense? haha
      1995 Grand Am GT
      3400 V6 / 4T60-E / Engine Swap
      3400 Engine Swap Guide Version 2.5 is Available!
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      • #4
        I guess ur mom never taught u how to clean up after urself lol. otherwise, he's a dick. Even an ass would take a step aside and say, hey, u don't mind cleaning ur stuff up. But i guess he is the JACK of all asses.
        Corey's 95 GP - Engine/Trans installed
        02 GTP - 90* > Failboat
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        • #5
          Actually, im the one that does most of the cleaning, including the bathroom. I don't really bring cars into the shop which brings the dirt in, yet I sweep most of the time cause I can't stand to have that much dirt in the shop. So yeah, this has nothing to do with cleaning.

          Im taking all my stuff out of the shop for the time being.
          Ben
          60DegreeV6.com
          WOT-Tech.com

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          • #6
            friends are just your enemies with more personal information.
            I wish 10% of the people on the road knew how to drive

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            • #7
              i personally witnessed the chained up jack!

              what a tool

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              • #8
                they say to keep friends close, and enemies closer. i try to figure out as much as i can about people i don't like, that way i have ammo.
                If you aren't friends with a liar, you aren't friends with anyone.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Doubt_Incarnate
                  they say to keep friends close, and enemies closer. i try to figure out as much as i can about people i don't like, that way i have ammo.
                  ya fuck em all. the way I see it is the only people you can really trust is yourself. I can't believe the fucker locked up the jack, what did he make you pay rent on the jack each month? what a fuck tard. good thing I don't live in Indiana, I have a problem with keeping my mouth shut sometimes. what a bitch, it's not even a hydrolic jack, shit you should charge him for making your arm soar.
                  I wish 10% of the people on the road knew how to drive

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                  • #10
                    In the words of Mr. Pea, Lifeth Learnith, kepp your friends close but also keep your enemies closer!!! He might not learn unfortunately..But Fortunately he'll get his just deserts! Oh yeah I had a blow out of my right rear tire in Penna. Had to run 200 miles home at 70 mph on the bagel!! Just picked up a used tire last night....
                    Lorenzo
                    '11 DODGE Challenger R/ T Classic 57M6 Green with Envy "Giant Green Squid"
                    '92 PONTIAC Grand Prix SE 34TDCM5 "Red Lobster"

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                    • #11
                      Damn, that sucks! Poor bagel:P

                      I guess he told my dad that he isn't done doing his stupid shit yet...so whatever. Ill have some info on friday. For now, most of my stuff is out of the shop, and im grabbing the rest today and tomorrow. Just a precaution for the future. I am taking my phone and answering machine out as well so if anyone needs to get a hold of me, email works best. I will be in warsaw for 2 weeks so I will put that phone number up on friday as well.
                      Ben
                      60DegreeV6.com
                      WOT-Tech.com

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                      • #12
                        So he said that he's still going fuck around? That just sounds like he's pretty messed up.
                        1995 Grand Am GT
                        3400 V6 / 4T60-E / Engine Swap
                        3400 Engine Swap Guide Version 2.5 is Available!
                        www.3400swap.com

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                        • #13
                          yeah, that is messed up. i thought i was the "dwell-master" that fixated on things like a total loser. well they do say there is always someone better than, and worse than you. just bail out as you are already doing, i'm sure he'll like paying all the expensess and not just half.
                          If you aren't friends with a liar, you aren't friends with anyone.

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                          • #14
                            too bad things didn't work out. oh well liv-n-learn. real friends are hard to find, it is good you found out his true nature now instead of later. other than that i am out of consolement .
                            The Official Rotating Mass Nazi

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                            • #15
                              Ok, well I tried to take the shop in my name only but the landlord seems to think jeff should have it. Oh well, yeah, my stuff is all out of here and the shop is still full. I was basically paying for half of the space so he could use it and now he can pay it all. he makes enough money though so its no big deal for him other than now he can't blame me for expenses. I will be moving into a small room in one of norm's bays for now, until he moves out in a couple months. I won't be paying rent and I get my first month free as well once the shop is in my name (though I gotta call again and make sure thats the plan cause the landlord told me he would give me a free month if I would take another bay).

                              My dad is going to look for a shop in warsaw over the next couple months as well, so either way things will hopefully work out. Income is my biggest problem right now...no one is buying anything this month. I know of some really nice stuff that is in the works now but can't share yet cause its not my project. I am going to spend a lot of time after I get set back up on the 94-95 DOHC chips and see what I can get done without the entire code layout. Thats my biggest concern now cause I see it as the biggest money maker for me and I really need the money. Flowbench is next, so I can flow all my port work, and then the custom DOHC intakes and then pushrod intakes after that. I am more motivated than I was 6 months ago, and I was pretty damn motivated then

                              Wish I had more time but I gotta get out of here and im taking the DSL setup and phone and all that with me. Hopefully I can get the phone moved over within a week cause I need my broadband connection
                              Ben
                              60DegreeV6.com
                              WOT-Tech.com

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